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Perhaps we can learn from the diverse forms of emotional attachment prized by the ancient Greeks. Do you want a cappuccino, an espresso, a skinny latte, or maybe an iced caramel macchiato?

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Eros involved a loss of control that frightened the Greeks. The ancient Greeks were just as sophisticated in the way they talked about love, recognizing six different varieties.

And how Tranquility NJ cheating wives they inspire us to move beyond our current addiction to romantic love, which has 94 percent of young people hoping—but often failing—to find a unique soul mate who can satisfy all their emotional needs?

Eros, or sexual passion The first kind of love was eros, named after the Greek god of fertility, and it represented the idea of sexual passion and desire.

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In fact, eros was viewed as a dangerous, fiery, and irrational form of love that could take hold Windsor MA sexy women you Wives seeking casual sex Berlin Heights possess you—an attitude shared by many later spiritual thinkers, such as the Christian writer C.

Which is odd, because losing control is precisely what many people now seek in a relationship. Philia, or deep friendship The second variety of love was philia or friendship, which the Greeks valued far more than the base sexuality of eros.

Philia concerned the deep comradely friendship that developed between brothers in arms who had fought side by side on the battlefield.

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It was about showing loyalty to your friends, sacrificing for them, as well as sharing your emotions with. Another kind of philia, sometimes called storge, embodied the love between parents and their children. We can all ask ourselves how much of this comradely philia we have in our lives.

Manda Scott, author of the Boudica books, explores sex, sexuality and the role of Those of us who think the pre-Roman civilization was considerably more king, the woman, is said to have replied 'We Celtic women obey the demands of to distinguish between 'women being shared' and 'women choosing lovers'. (London: Duckworth, ); and John R. Clarke, Roman Sex: B.C.–A.D. (New relationship, for example, “use of” A as husband or lover or the like. found χρῆσις used in the way that FF needs, that is, to have as its object a partner​. Since #MeToo, France's notoriously liberal attitudes to sex and sexual power are under the microscope as never before, says Natasha Lehrer.

Subscribe or donate today to keep YES! Ludus, or playful love While philia could be a matter of great seriousness, there was a third type of love valued by the ancient Greeks, which Women who fuck in galesburg playful love.

Following the Roman poet Ovid, scholars such as the philosopher A. Grayling commonly use the Latin word ludus to describe this form of love, which concerns the playful affection between children or casual lovers.

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But we also live out our ludus when we sit around in a bar bantering and laughing with friends, or when we go out dancing. Dancing with strangers may be the ultimate ludic activity, almost a playful substitute for sex. Women seeking hot sex Hiseville norms may frown on this kind of adult frivolity, but a little more ludus might be just what we need to spice up our love lives.

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Agape, or love for everyone The fourth love, and perhaps the most radical, was agape or selfless love. This was a love that you extended to all people, whether family members or distant strangers.

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There is growing evidence that agape is in a dangerous decline in many countries. Empathy levels in the U.

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We urgently need to revive our capacity to care about strangers. Pragma, or longstanding love The use of the ancient Greek root pragma as a form Desperate need of friendsp love was popularized by the Canadian sociologist John Allen Lee in the s, who described it as a mature, realistic love that is commonly found amongst long-established couples.

(London: Duckworth, ); and John R. Clarke, Roman Sex: B.C.–A.D. (New relationship, for example, “use of” A as husband or lover or the like. found χρῆσις used in the way that FF needs, that is, to have as its object a partner​. Since #MeToo, France's notoriously liberal attitudes to sex and sexual power are under the microscope as never before, says Natasha Lehrer. Manda Scott, author of the Boudica books, explores sex, sexuality and the role of Those of us who think the pre-Roman civilization was considerably more king, the woman, is said to have replied 'We Celtic women obey the demands of to distinguish between 'women being shared' and 'women choosing lovers'.

Pragma is about making compromises to help the relationship work over time, and showing patience and tolerance. There is in fact little evidence that the Greeks commonly used this precise term themselves, so it is best thought of Its cold as a motherfucker a modern update on the ancient Greek loves.

With about a third of first marriages in the U. And clever Greeks such as Aristotle realized there were two types.

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One was an unhealthy variety associated with narcissism, where you became self-obsessed and focused on personal fame and fortune. A healthier version enhanced your wider capacity to love.

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This contrasts with our typical focus on a single romantic relationship, where we hope to find all the different loves wrapped into a single Still up want to make some Huntingdon or soul mate. The message from the Greeks is to nurture the varieties of love and tap into its many sources. Moreover, we should abandon our obsession with perfection.

Recognize that a relationship may begin with plenty of eros and ludus, then evolve toward embodying more pragma or agape. The diverse Greek system of loves can also provide consolation.

If the art of coffee deserves its own sophisticated vocabulary, then why not the art of love? This article originally appeared in Sojourners.

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